Postpartum doula care  ·  Seattle, Washington

Everyone comes for the baby. I come for you.

I'm Monica Cox, a trained postpartum doula and early childhood specialist in Seattle. I come into your home during the fourth trimester so that you can rest, eat well, feed your baby with support, and have someone to talk to.

About Monica

Who is the village for the parent?

We often hear that it takes a village to raise a child. We rarely ask the question that matters just as much.

Navigating hard seasons in my own life has been possible because of the unwavering support of the women around me. In modern parenthood that circle isn't always built in. Not everyone has a mother, a sister, or a lifelong friend living nearby. Stepping into your home as a postpartum doula is my way of closing that gap, with a loving hand, a calm presence, and the dedicated support every family deserves.

For over a decade I worked in early childhood education, guiding children from birth through their early school years. I loved nurturing little ones, but my heart kept pulling toward the very center of the home: the mother. When a birthing parent feels capable, safe, well nourished, and truly listened to, the ripple effect strengthens the whole household.

Supporting the baby begins by mothering the mother.

I completed my postpartum doula training through Bastyr University's DONA-approved program, and I am working in family homes now while I finish my final certification requirements. Whether you are bringing home your first baby or your fourth, this time is sacred, raw, and vulnerable. My commitment is that you feel protected, respected, and never alone at the center of your village.

Bastyr University Postpartum Doula Training, DONA-approved Certification in process 10+ years early childhood & nanny experience Infant & pediatric CPR / First Aid Safe Sleep certified, Washington DCYF Food Handler's Card
Monica Cox, postpartum doula, Seattle
My mission

To center and nurture the birthing parent during the fourth trimester, holding dedicated space for their emotional and mental well-being. By providing compassionate lactation guidance, prioritizing restorative sleep, and supporting the entire household dynamic, I empower parents to feel grounded, nourished, and deeply confident as they navigate life with a new baby.

Monica Cox  ·  Sister Sanctuary

What the care includes

How I help.

An open ear, and regular check-ins

An honest, nonjudgmental presence to process the highs and lows of the postpartum transition, for whoever is doing the caring: the birthing parent, a partner, a grandparent, a guardian. Checking in on how you are doing is part of the routine, not something that waits until you are struggling, and it includes recognized screening questions for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. I don't diagnose anything. I notice early, say something kindly, and help you reach a licensed perinatal mental health provider if that is what would help.

Feeding and newborn guidance

Gentle lactation and infant feeding support alongside evidence-based newborn care: comfortable latch and positioning, reading your baby's feeding cues, and a setup that is easy on your body, whether you are breastfeeding, chestfeeding, pumping, or using bottles. I will wash, sanitize, and reassemble pump parts and bottles too. If I notice a feeding challenge that needs clinical care, I will say so early and help you find an IBCLC.

Rest and recovery

Uninterrupted sleep windows, safeguarded. I tend to the baby so you can sleep properly, and while I am there I will model gentle newborn soothing, age-appropriate sleep rhythms, and safe sleep practices you can keep using after I go home.

Nourishment and the daily load

Comforting, nourishing snacks and simple food made with recovery and lactation in mind. I also handle the light household rhythms that pile up: infant laundry washed and folded, recovery dishes done, kitchen counters wiped, nursery bins and diaper pails emptied. Easing the daily mental load is part of the care.

The whole family

Older siblings need a gentle way back in, so I bring connection activities and age-appropriate routines that make room for them. I model soothing and babywearing for partners as well, so that caring for the baby is genuinely shared.

Scope of practice

What I do, and what I don't.

What I do

  • Non-medical physical, emotional, and practical support in your home
  • Regular mental health check-ins for every adult caring for the baby, including recognized screening questions for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders
  • Gentle lactation and infant feeding guidance, and evidence-based newborn care
  • Newborn care so you can sleep, shower, and eat
  • Nourishing snacks and light recovery housekeeping
  • Sibling and partner integration
  • Help finding the right person when something is outside my scope

What I don't

  • Medical exams, clinical procedures, or anything requiring a license
  • Diagnosing physical or mental health conditions, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders included
  • Deep cleaning, heavy chores, cooking for the household, or catering
  • Replacing your midwife, OB, pediatrician, IBCLC, or therapist

When something falls outside what I can offer, I will help you find who can. That might be a midwife, an OB/GYN, a pediatrician, a pelvic floor physical therapist, an IBCLC, or a perinatal mental health provider. I keep a set of trusted resources to point you toward, and I am building relationships across the Seattle birth community as I go, so the families I work with have somewhere good to turn.

Rates

Rates and booking.

Daytime support

$45 / hour

Four hours is the minimum, so a single visit is $180. Feeding support, protected rest, snacks, light recovery care, and someone to talk to.

Setting a schedule. Most families settle into a standing weekly block, agreed at the consult and booked at the same hourly rate. Keeping the same hours each week is what makes the support feel steady rather than occasional, and it means I can hold that time for you.

How booking works. Care is confirmed with a contract and half of the total up front, which holds your dates and is not refundable. The balance is due as the care happens.

Hours. My work is daytime, and there is real flexibility inside that. I can start early, before the house is properly awake, or stay into the evening when that is when you need the help most. Overnight care isn't something I'm offering at the moment.

Hours of care make a lovely gift.

Grandparents, aunts, and friends can give hours of postpartum support: a long stretch of uninterrupted sleep, an afternoon of feeding help, a calm and tidy nursery. Please get in touch before you buy, so we can check dates together and talk through what would help the family most. Hours can be added to a baby registry.

Ask about gifting
How we start
1

Send me a note

Tell me your due date or timeline and the kind of support you have in mind. A few sentences is plenty.

2

We sit down together

A free consult, in person or by video, to talk through your family, your hours, and what would help you most.

3

We put it in writing

A contract covering your schedule, scope, and rate, held with half up front. We can adjust it as your family's needs change.

Questions I'm often asked
Are you a certified doula?

Not yet, though I am already doing the work. I completed my postpartum doula training through Bastyr University's DONA-approved program, and I am supporting a family in their home now while I finish my final certification requirements. My infant and pediatric CPR and First Aid are current, I hold a Washington DCYF Safe Sleep certification and a Food Handler's Card, and I have spent more than ten years in early childhood education and private family care.

How far in advance should I book?

Most families reach out in the second or third trimester. I take no more than two families at once, and I am currently with one family for more than thirty hours a week, so next availability starts in November. Please get in touch before then anyway, and we can plan around your dates.

What does a typical shift look like?

Daytime shifts run a four-hour minimum, and most families settle into a standing weekly block that we set at the consult. There is flexibility within the day: I can start early or stay into the evening when that is when the help is needed.

Do you work overnights?

Overnight care isn't something I'm offering at the moment. My work is daytime, though the hours themselves are flexible. An early start before the house wakes up, or a stretch into the evening, is often what makes the difference, and we can work out the shape that suits your household at the consult.

What areas do you serve?

Seattle and the surrounding area. If you are not sure whether you are within range, just ask.

What if the baby comes early, or late?

Babies keep their own schedule, and the plan flexes with them. We talk about this openly at the consult, and flexibility on both sides is part of the contract. Because I take no more than two families at once, there is room to shift start dates without anyone being squeezed.

Do you check in on how I'm doing emotionally?

Yes, as a matter of routine rather than only when something feels wrong. That includes recognized screening questions for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, and it applies to every adult caring for the baby, not only the person who gave birth. I am not there to diagnose anything. If something looks like more than the ordinary hard days, I will say so kindly and help you reach a licensed perinatal mental health provider.

Can I use my HSA or FSA?

Sometimes, depending on your plan. Doula care can be HSA or FSA eligible with a Letter of Medical Necessity from your provider, though plans differ on how much of postpartum support qualifies, and the emotional support and household portions often do not. Please check with your plan administrator first. I will provide an itemized receipt either way, so you have what you need to submit.

Do you cook?

I prepare comforting, nourishing snacks and simple food built around recovery and lactation for the birthing parent. What I don't take on is cooking for the household or catering. That boundary keeps my hours going where they help most.

Do you offer gift certificates?

Yes. Family and friends can give hours in any amount, and hours can be added to a baby registry. Please get in touch before buying so we can confirm dates and talk through what would help most.

Get in touch

Tell me about your family.

Serving Seattle and the surrounding area
Taking clients No more than two families at once. Next availability starts in November.

Online consult booking is coming soon. For now, a note here reaches me directly.